10 Fun and Engaging Confidence Activities for Girls Who Doubt Themselves

Because Every Girl Deserves to Believe in Herself

Let’s be honest—self-doubt shows up so early for girls. Whether it’s worrying they’re not “good enough,” comparing themselves to others, or holding back from speaking up, that little voice of insecurity can be loud and persistent. But here’s the truth: confidence is not something you’re either born with or not. It’s something that can be nurtured, practiced, and strengthened—especially in safe, supportive spaces.

That’s where you come in. Whether you’re a coach, educator, mentor, or parent, these 10 activities will help girls who are struggling with self-doubt reconnect with their strengths, speak more kindly to themselves, and begin to see just how powerful they already are.

💡 Key Takeaways

• Confidence grows through practice, patience, and permission to be real

• Girls need spaces where they feel safe to express, reflect, and try without fear of judgment

• Fun, creative activities are powerful tools for helping girls rewrite the stories they tell themselves

• When girls doubt themselves, we don’t need to fix them—we need to remind them who they are

1. “I Am” Mirror Affirmation Activity

Have girls decorate a small hand mirror with positive words or affirmations. Then, invite them to say an “I am” statement while looking at themselves: “I am enough,” “I am kind,” “I am brave.” It might feel awkward at first—but over time, it builds self-recognition and self-love.

2. The Inner Critic Letter

Invite girls to write a short letter from their “inner critic”—the voice that says they’re not good enough. Then, flip the page and write back with kindness, using the voice of their inner cheerleader. This powerful journaling activity builds awareness and resilience.

3. Compliment Chain Game

Sit in a circle and pass a soft object around. Each girl gives a compliment to the person on her right—something specific and from the heart. It could be about her creativity, courage, or kindness. This activity helps girls see the good in each other—and in themselves.

4. Confidence Collage

Using magazines, stickers, markers, and images, girls create a visual representation of their strengths, dreams, and affirmations. Display the collages or take them home as a reminder of who they are beyond doubt or fear.

5. Brave Bucket List

Ask girls to write down 3 things they want to do that feel brave—even if they’re a little scary. These can be big (auditioning for a play) or small (asking a question in class). Then, create a group bucket list and celebrate every time someone checks one off.

6. Role Reversal Skits

Have girls act out typical negative self-talk (“I can’t do this,” “I’m not smart enough”)—then rewrite the scene with empowering responses. This helps them practice interrupting doubt in real time and builds awareness of the words they use with themselves.

7. “Confidence Jar” Activity

Give each girl a mason jar or small box. Throughout your sessions, have them write down compliments, affirmations, or moments they felt proud—and place them in the jar. When self-doubt shows up, they can pull one out for a boost.

8. Power Pose + Positive Self-Talk Combo

Teach girls to stand in a superhero stance—feet apart, shoulders back, hands on hips. Then, repeat an empowering phrase out loud. It might feel silly, but it works. Confidence in the body supports confidence in the mind.

9. Kindness to Myself Cards

Have girls design a set of “kindness to myself” cards with gentle phrases like:
“It’s okay to make mistakes,”
“I’m doing my best,”
“My worth isn’t measured by what others think.”
They can keep the cards in their backpack or journal for a daily reminder.

10. “Real Me” Reflection Prompt

Ask: What’s something people might not see on the outside, but is a big part of who you are?
This creates space for girls to share their inner world—and to feel less alone in their struggles. When we normalize doubt, we give girls permission to grow through it.

Ready to lead girls through a deeper, more intentional confidence journey? The Confidence Coaching Kit is a 4-week series designed to help girls build inner confidence, speak kindly to themselves, and show up as their authentic selves. Inside you’ll find guided activities, journaling prompts, discussion topics, and printable tools to help girls move from doubt to belief—one powerful step at a time.

You don’t have to fix her self-doubt. You just have to hold space for her to remember her strength. Let me know which activity your group loves most—I’m cheering you on every step of the way!

- Kate