10 Pretty Words That Build Self Esteem & Why They Matter

Because the words we choose shape how girls see themselves—and the world.

Words matter. Especially to girls who are still figuring out who they are, what they believe, and how they fit into a world that doesn’t always celebrate their softness, strength, or spark.

That’s why introducing girls to pretty words—the kind that uplift, empower, and feel good to say—is more than just a feel-good exercise. It’s a powerful way to shift self talk, reframe identity, and remind girls of their worth.

Whether you’re creating a group mantra, decorating a classroom, or building a confidence vocabulary, these 10 pretty words are more than just beautiful—they’re belief-builders.

💡 Key Takeaways

• Words have the power to shape self perception and boost confidence

• Girls benefit from hearing and speaking positive, empowering language daily

• Pretty words can be turned into affirmations, wall art, journals, and more

• Encouraging girls to choose their own words builds ownership of identity and worth

1. Radiant

A reminder that her light doesn’t come from how she looks—but from who she is.
Try: “You’re radiant when you’re being your true self.”

2. Worthy

This is a foundation word for self esteem. No matter what happens—she is worthy. Full stop.
Try: “I am worthy of love, respect, and kindness.”

3. Resilient

A word for the girls who keep showing up, even when it’s hard.
Try: “I bend, but I don’t break. I am resilient.”

4. Brave

Not fearless—brave. Brave enough to try, to speak up, to be real.
Try: “I do things that scare me. That’s what makes me brave.”

5. Gentle

A word that honors softness and kindness as strengths, not weaknesses.
Try: “I speak to myself with a gentle voice.”

6. Bold

Big ideas, big heart, big dreams—yes, please.
Try: “I am bold in who I am and what I believe.”

7. Authentic

Permission to be exactly who she is—not who the world expects her to be.
Try: “I let go of trying to be perfect. I choose to be authentic.”

8. Curious

This pretty little word invites exploration, openness, and joy in learning.
Try: “I am curious about who I’m becoming.”

9. Graceful

Not just in movement—but in how she handles mistakes, growth, and challenges.
Try: “I give myself grace while I grow.”

10. Enough

The one word every girl deserves to hear and believe—again and again.
Try: “I am enough. Exactly as I am.”

How to Use These Words With Girls

• Make affirmation cards or bookmarks

• Paint or color them onto rocks, canvases, or journals

• Start group check-ins with a “word of the day”

• Have girls choose their own pretty word and write a mini mantra using it

Let them write it. Say it. Wear it. Believe it.

Want More Words That Build Confidence?

The Shine From The Inside Workshop Kit includes powerful word-based journaling prompts, reflection activities, and creative self esteem builders designed to help girls speak to themselves with compassion, clarity, and confidence. It’s a complete 4-part series that makes confidence tangible, through words, art, and heart.

Because when a girl’s inner voice starts speaking these pretty words, everything changes.

With Love,
Kate