100 Mom/Daughter Conversation Starters

Jun 22, 2023

We know that fostering a strong bond with our daughters is one of the most beautiful and rewarding aspects of motherhood. But let's face it, as our girls grow and change, sometimes it can be challenging to keep the lines of communication as open and flowing as we'd like. Especially when they're transitioning from little girls to young adults. Today, we're here to help make that a bit easier! We've compiled a list of 100 conversation starters for moms and daughters, tailored specifically for girls aged between 9 and 15. These questions are designed to spark meaningful conversations, encourage deeper understanding, and strengthen the bond between you and your daughter. So let's dive in, and get those heart-to-heart conversations started!

  1. What was the best part of your day today?
  2. If you could have any superpower, what would it be and why?
  3. What's your favorite subject at school and why?
  4. If you could go anywhere in the world, where would it be?
  5. Who is your best friend and why do you like them?
  6. What's your favorite book? Can you tell me what it's about?
  7. What are three things that make you really happy?
  8. If you could change one rule at home, what would it be?
  9. What do you like most about yourself?
  10. What's your favorite song at the moment? What do you like about it?
  11. What's something you learned recently that you found interesting?
  12. What is your favorite family tradition?
  13. What is something you want to learn how to do?
  14. If you could meet any historical figure, who would it be and why?
  15. What is your dream job?
  16. Can you tell me about a time you felt really proud of yourself?
  17. If you could have any animal as a pet, what would you choose?
  18. What's your favorite memory?
  19. What would your perfect day look like?
  20. Who is someone you look up to? Why?
  21. What is your favorite game to play?
  22. If you could invent something, what would it be?
  23. If you could be any animal for a day, which one would you be?
  24. Is there a skill you wish you had?
  25. What are some things you are grateful for?
  26. What's your favorite thing we've done as a family?
  27. If you were president for a day, what would you do?
  28. What's your favorite holiday and why?
  29. What's something that scares you and why?
  30. How do you like to spend your free time?
  31. What makes a good friend?
  32. What's the funniest joke you know?
  33. If you could be any character in a book or movie, who would you be?
  34. What are your favorite and least favorite foods?
  35. If you had a million dollars, what would you do with it?
  36. What's something you want to be better at?
  37. If you could have any three wishes, what would they be?
  38. What is your favorite season and why?
  39. What is something that you've always wanted to try?
  40. What's your favorite thing to do outside?
  41. What was your favorite trip or vacation?
  42. What's your favorite animal and why?
  43. What is something that makes you feel brave?
  44. If you could change one thing about school, what would it be?
  45. What's something you're excited about right now?
  46. What's your favorite movie? Why do you like it?
  47. If you could live in any time period, when would it be?
  48. What's your favorite thing about being your age?
  49. What's the hardest thing about being your age?
  50. If you could have dinner with anyone, who would it be?
  51. What's your favorite family recipe?
  52. Is there a cause or issue that you feel passionate about?
  53. What's the most interesting thing you've learned in school this year?
  54. What's your favorite thing to do when you're alone?
  55. What is your favorite outfit?
  56. How do you like to express yourself creatively?
  57. What's your favorite sport or physical activity?
  58. What's a new hobby you would like to take up?
  59. What59. What's your favorite planet in the solar system and why?
  60. What's your favorite kind of weather?
  61. What's the kindest thing someone has ever done for you?
  62. If you had a time machine, would you go to the past or the future? Why?
  63. What's your favorite thing about nature?
  64. What do you think makes a person beautiful?
  65. What's the best dream you've ever had?
  66. If you could learn any language, which would you choose and why?
  67. What is your favorite joke?
  68. What is your favorite type of art?
  69. What's the most difficult thing you've ever done?
  70. What are three things you couldn't live without?
  71. What's your favorite fairytale or story?
  72. What do you think the world will be like in 20 years?
  73. What is the biggest challenge you're facing right now?
  74. What do you like to do to relax?
  75. If you could make one rule that everyone in the world had to follow, what would it be?
  76. What's your favorite thing to learn about?
  77. How would you describe yourself in three words?
  78. What is your favorite type of music?
  79. What's the most important lesson you've learned so far?
  80. What are some of the ways you help out around the house?
  81. What's the nicest thing you've ever done for someone?
  82. What's your favorite piece of clothing you own?
  83. Who in our family are you most like and why?
  84. What's your favorite thing to do with your friends?
  85. If you could be invisible for a day, what would you do?
  86. What's your favorite thing about our home?
  87. What's the coolest thing you've seen in a museum?
  88. What is your favorite thing about yourself?
  89. What's your favorite type of dessert?
  90. If you had to describe your family in three words, what would they be?
  91. What's your favorite thing about your school?
  92. What would your dream house look like?
  93. What's your favorite thing to do on the weekends?
  94. If you had to live in a book, TV show, or movie, what would it be?
  95. What's your favorite thing about your teacher?
  96. If you could have any fictional character as a friend, who would you choose?
  97. What's the most beautiful place you've ever seen?
  98. What's your favorite thing to do with me (as your mom)?
  99. What do you want to be remembered for?
  100. If you could change one thing about the world, what would it be?

Happy chatting! 

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