5 Fun Games for Teen Girls to Boost Teamwork, Connection & Confidence

Low-Pressure, High-Vibe Activities That Bring Girls Together

You don’t need a big budget or complicated plans to build connection and confidence. Sometimes, all it takes is a few fun games, a safe space, and a little bit of laughter.

These five group games are perfect for girls’ circles, after-school programs, retreats, classrooms—or anytime you want to spark teamwork, break the ice, and help girls feel seen, supported, and strong.

💡 Key Takeaways

• Games are a fun and low-pressure way to build trust and teamwork

• Movement and play reduce anxiety and boost confidence

• These activities work for small or large groups of teen girls

• Add journaling or reflection after each game to deepen the learning

• Play first, connect deeply second—it all counts as empowerment!

1. Compliment Ball Toss

What You’ll Need: A soft ball or inflatable beach ball

How to Play:
Stand in a circle. The girl holding the ball tosses it to someone and gives her a genuine compliment (not appearance-based—focus on character, strengths, or leadership!). That girl says “thank you,” then tosses it to someone else and continues the chain.

Why It Works:
This game boosts confidence, builds a culture of kindness, and helps girls see the good in themselves and each other.

Pro Tip: Keep it going fast to make it playful—or slow it down for more thoughtful shares.

2. The Human Knot

What You’ll Need: Just your group!

How to Play:
Girls stand in a circle, reach across, and hold hands with two different people. Without letting go, they work together to untangle the knot and return to a full circle.

Why It Works:
It’s a great metaphor for communication, problem-solving, and sticking together through challenges. Plus—it’s always a little chaotic and very fun!

Pro Tip: Reflect afterward on what made the group successful. Who took the lead? Who helped keep things positive?

3. Confidence Charades

What You’ll Need: A bowl of slips with confidence-boosting actions or traits (e.g., “asking a question in class,” “trying something new,” “being kind to a stranger”)

How to Play:
Girls take turns picking a slip and acting it out silently while the group guesses the action. After each round, pause to talk about why that action takes confidence.

Why It Works:
This game mixes movement, laughter, and reflection—helping girls name and celebrate real confidence (not just the loud kind).

4. Team Tower Challenge

What You’ll Need: Tape + simple supplies (e.g., spaghetti, straws, or mini marshmallows)

How to Play:
Divide into small teams. Challenge each team to build the tallest free-standing tower in 10–15 minutes using only the supplies. Bonus points for teamwork and creativity!

Why It Works:
This game brings out natural leadership, collaboration, and communication skills—all while giving girls a chance to fail forward and celebrate effort.

Pro Tip: Reflect on what roles everyone played—leader, encourager, problem solver—and how they supported each other.

5. Shine Circle “Hot Seat”

What You’ll Need: A big heart and kind words 💕

How to Play:
One girl sits in the “Shine Seat” while the rest of the group takes turns sharing something they admire, appreciate, or notice about her. Then rotate.

Why It Works:
It’s simple but powerful. Girls walk away feeling affirmed, seen, and reminded that they matter. It also helps them practice giving and receiving positive feedback.

Pro Tip: Give girls the option to pass or write their compliments if they’re shy—this should feel safe, never forced.

Bonus: Reflect + Journal

After the games, ask questions like:

• What did you learn about yourself today?

• When did you feel brave or supported?

• What kind of teammate or leader do you want to be?

These games are more than icebreakers—they’re confidence builders in disguise.

Want More Confidence-Building Activities, Games & Group Tools?
The FearlesslyGiRL Program Kits include dozens of done-for-you empowerment sessions, journaling prompts, connection tools, and yes—fun games like these to make your next group feel powerful and unforgettable.

You don’t need to be perfect. You just need to create space for girls to show up, shine, and grow—together.

And that’s exactly what you’re doing.

– Kate