7 Valentine’s Day Activities That Teach Self-Love to Girls

Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be just about candy hearts and secret crushes, it’s the perfect time to help girls fall in love with the most important person in their lives: themselves.

At FearlesslyGiRL, we believe self-love is a superpower, and what better day to celebrate it than one that’s all about love?

Whether you're leading a girls group, mentoring one-on-one, or planning a classroom activity, these 7 self-love-centered Valentine’s Day ideas will help girls grow confidence, kindness, and courage, from the inside out. 

💡 Key Takeaways

• Valentine’s Day is a great opportunity to teach girls self-love and confidence

• Activities like journaling, affirmations, and vision boards make abstract concepts real and fun

• Helping girls speak kindly to themselves boosts resilience, leadership, and emotional wellness

1. 💌 Write a Love Letter… To Yourself

This is a powerful journaling activity that helps girls recognize their own worth. Ask each girl to write a heartfelt letter to herself, starting with “Dear Me,” and include things like:

• What they love about who they are

• Compliments they’d give a friend (but now give to themselves!)

• A reminder that they are enough—just as they are

💡 Pro tip: Provide colorful pens, stickers, and envelopes. Seal and save them to open later when they need a boost!

2. 🪞 Mirror Affirmations: I Am Love, I Am Enough

Real talk: the words we say to ourselves matter. Help girls create powerful self-love affirmations to say in the mirror. Try:

• “I am worthy of love—especially my own.”

• “I am strong, kind, and enough.”

• “I choose to speak to myself with kindness.”

You can even turn this into a fun craft: let them decorate mini handheld mirrors with affirmations, gems, and glitter.

3. 🎨 Create a Self-Love Vision Board

This one’s always a favorite! Using magazines, printouts, or drawings, have girls create a collage of images and words that represent their best selves.

Encourage them to include:

• What makes them feel confident

• Hobbies and passions they love

• Words that describe their values (like “brave,” “creative,” “loyal”)

It’s more than a craft—it’s a visual reminder of who they are and who they’re becoming. 💪

4. 🌹 Compliment Circle With a Twist

Sit in a circle and have each girl share a genuine compliment with the person next to her. But here’s the twist—each girl must also give herself a compliment out loud.

It’s sweet. It’s silly. It might feel awkward at first. But it teaches girls that self-kindness matters just as much as kindness to others.

5. 🧁 Cupcake Decorating + Kindness Sprinkles

Pair a fun treat with a sweet message! Give each girl a cupcake (or cookie) to decorate—but here’s the challenge:

Every sprinkle or topping must represent something she loves about herself. For example:

• Pink sprinkles = something she’s proud of

• Chocolate chips = a talent or strength

• Heart candy = someone she shows love to

Yummy and meaningful? Yes, please.

6. 💬 Self-Love Social Media Post (Offline!)

Have girls create a mock Instagram post celebrating themselves—no likes needed. Grab a template or blank paper and include:

• A selfie or drawing

• A caption like: “Feeling strong and confident today 💖 #SelfLove”

• 3 things they’re celebrating about themselves

This activity is great for reframing how they see themselves without comparison or filters.

7. ✨ “Be Your Own Valentine” Gift Bags

Instead of waiting for someone else to gift them love, girls can make their own empowering Valentine’s gift bags!

Include:

• A handwritten note of encouragement

• A small item that makes them feel happy (lip balm, bracelet, journal, etc.)

• A reminder: “I am my own Valentine!”

It’s a celebration of independence, joy, and owning your worth.

🌸 NEW: Galentine’s Day Activity Kit

Create Strong Hearts and Strong Friendships with Confidence, Connection, and Heart using the Galentine’s Day Activity Kit!

Designed for educators, mentors, youth leaders, coaches, and parents, this all-in-one resource gives you everything you need to lead a powerful Galentine’s Day–themed workshop, girls group session, classroom experience, or community event focused on healthy friendships, confidence, and kindness.

Whether you’re planning a one-time Galentine’s Day workshop or weaving these activities into your ongoing programming, this kit makes your session meaningful, inclusive, and deeply impactful. With step-by-step guidance, interactive group activities, and thoughtful reflection tools, you’ll help girls:

• Build self-worth

• Strengthen friendships

• Develop the confidence to show up as their authentic selves

👉 Grab your Galentine’s Day Activity Kit now and lead with love, confidence, and connection!

You've got this 💗