9 Confidence-Building Games for Girls That Are Actually Fun

Group Games That Spark Laughter, Connection & Courage

Let’s be honest: when it comes to building confidence with girls, fun is a secret superpower. Games that are playful, low-pressure, and full of connection can help girls feel braver, kinder, and more themselves, without even realizing they’re “working” on confidence.

Whether you’re running a girls’ group, classroom circle, retreat, or workshop, these 9 confidence-building games will get girls laughing, sharing, and stepping into their strengths with joy.

Because when girls feel safe and supported, their confidence starts to shine.

💡 Key Takeaways

• Confidence grows best when girls feel safe, included, and celebrated

• Games create a relaxed, joyful atmosphere that helps break down walls and build connection

• These activities are designed to be easy to lead, group-friendly, and age-appropriate for tweens and teens

• You don’t need fancy supplies: just a positive vibe and some open space!

1. Brave Charades

Just like classic charades, but with a confidence-boosting twist. Write down real-life brave girl scenarios, like:

• Giving a class presentation

• Trying something new

• Standing up for a friend

• Saying “no” to peer pressure

Girls take turns acting them out while others guess.

🎭 Why it works: It gets girls thinking (and laughing!) about brave actions in a low-pressure, silly way. Plus, it normalizes everyday courage—which makes it more likely they’ll try it IRL.

📝 Leader tip: After each round, ask the group: “Has anyone ever done this before? How did it feel?” This opens the door to storytelling and real-life connection.

2. Compliment Hot Potato

Play music while the girls pass around a soft ball, beanbag, or plush heart. When the music stops, the girl holding the item gives a compliment, either to herself or someone else.

💖 Why it works: Compliments can feel awkward or cheesy, but this format makes it feel playful and natural. It encourages both self-love and peer support.

🔁 Variation: Use themed rounds, like “something you're proud of,” “a time you were kind,” or “what you admire in someone here.”

3. Confidence Scavenger Hunt

Hide index cards or clues around the room (or outdoors!) with confidence-building prompts, like:

• “Strike a superhero pose for 10 seconds”

• “Tell someone here why they're awesome”

• “Say out loud: I am strong!”

• “Share something you're good at”

Girls can work solo, in pairs, or small teams to complete each challenge.

🚶‍♀️ Why it works: Movement + empowerment = magic. It builds energy, gets girls thinking positively, and keeps them engaged from start to finish.

🎒 No prep? Use sticky notes, chalk on pavement, or even call out prompts on the spot.

4. “Yes, And!” Circle

In a circle, the first girl makes a positive statement (like, “I’m really creative”). The next girl responds with “Yes, and…”followed by an affirmation or related positive statement:

• “Yes, and I love how you always come up with cool ideas!”

• “Yes, and your creativity inspires me to try new things.”

💬 Why it works: This game teaches active listening, affirmation, and collaboration. Girls get to hear themselvesbeing celebrated, and learn to uplift others.

🧠 Bonus idea: Try this with future goals, like: “I want to be a leader.” → “Yes, and I know you’ll make a difference.”

5. Superpower Name Game

Each girl says her name and a confidence-based superpower she claims as her own:

🦸‍♀️ “I’m Tiana, and my superpower is speaking up.”
🦸‍♀️ “I’m Lila, and I make people feel welcome.”
🦸‍♀️ “I’m Zoe, and I keep going even when things are hard.”

💪 Why it works: This turns values into identity. Girls begin to see their strengths not as “just who they are” but as powerful, supercharged qualities to be proud of.

✨ Pro tip: Write their superpowers on cards or a poster so they can see and celebrate them.

6. Mirror Mirror

Pair girls up. One is the leader, the other is the “mirror,” copying her confident movements, poses, or dance moves. Then they switch.

🌟 Why it works: It builds body awareness, confidence, and trust, all while being low-key hilarious. It also encourages girls to be seen and celebrated in their full, joyful presence.

🎶 Add music! A fun playlist can elevate the energy and ease any awkwardness.

7. Positivity Pictionary

Write down phrases like:

• “Trying something new”

• “Friendship”

• “Loving yourself”

• “Being fearless”

• “Making a difference”

Split into teams and let girls take turns drawing while their teammates guess.

🎨 Why it works: Drawing builds creativity and self-expression, while guessing builds group bonding and communication. Plus, it naturally leads to conversations about what each phrase means.

💡 Conversation starter: After each round, ask: “What does that look like in real life?”

8. Stand Up If...

Use “stand up if…” prompts to spark courage and connection. Try:

• “Stand up if you’ve ever felt nervous to try something new”

• “Stand up if you’ve helped someone feel included”

• “Stand up if you’re proud of who you’re becoming”

Let girls look around the circle and see just how not alone they are.

🌈 Why it works: This simple activity builds empathy and shared experience. It helps girls realize their feelings are normal, and shared.

🧘‍♀️ Optional: Follow with a group reflection, journal prompt, or short sharing circle.

9. Pass the Sparkle

To end your session on a high note, pass around a “sparkly” item (a glittery ball, wand, or even a stone with glitter nail polish) and invite each girl to share:

• One thing she’s proud of

• One kind word for someone in the group

• Or one way she showed courage that day

✨ Why it works: This closing ritual creates a moment of appreciation, reflection, and celebration. It’s simple, yet incredibly powerful.

📷 Memory idea: Take a group photo afterward holding the sparkle item—instant keepsake!

🌟 Want More Confidence Activities Girls Will Love?

Check out our Shine From Within Workshop Kit (Just $33!): packed with powerful, play-based tools to help you run your next girls’ circle, club, or workshop with ease.

It includes printable games, journaling prompts, affirmation cards, and all the structure you need to create an experience where girls feel safe, confident, and seen.

Let’s make confidence contagious 💛 You’ve got this, and so do the girls you're empowering.

Which game will you try first? Let me know, I’d love to hear how it goes!