How to Start a Girls Empowerment Club at Your School

Step-by-Step Guide to Create a Safe, Supportive Space Where Girls Can Thrive

Imagine this: a group of girls gathered in a circle—sharing stories, building each other up, growing into confident leaders. No pressure to perform. Just real connection, meaningful conversations, and the kind of encouragement that changes lives.

That’s the power of a girls empowerment club.

If you've been dreaming about starting one at your school (or helping a student launch one), you're in the right place. You don’t need a huge budget or a perfect plan. You just need heart, structure, and the courage to begin.

This step-by-step guide will walk you through exactly how to bring your vision to life—and create a space where every girl feels seen, heard, and empowered.

💡 Key Takeaways

• A girls empowerment club helps girls build confidence, leadership, and connection

• You don’t need to have it all figured out—just start with intention and structure

• Create consistent meetings with space for reflection, fun, and real talk

• Start small and grow with feedback from the girls

• There are ready-to-go resources that can help you every step of the way

Step 1: Get Clear on Your “Why”
Before anything else, ask yourself: Why do I want to start this club?
Is it to help girls build self-esteem? Improve peer relationships? Create leadership opportunities? Address social media pressure?

Knowing your “why” will guide your format, goals, and themes—and help you get others on board.

Step 2: Connect with a School Advisor or Administrator
If you’re a student, find a supportive teacher or staff member to help sponsor the group. If you’re an educator, talk with your administration about your idea, goals, and vision.

You’ll want to cover:

• When and where you’ll meet (after school? lunch break?)

• How many students you hope to include

• Any materials or support you’ll need

Step 3: Choose a Meeting Structure That Works
Consistency builds trust. Decide on a regular meeting time (weekly or biweekly is great!) and keep your sessions around 45–60 minutes.

Each meeting can follow a simple, repeatable flow:

1. Welcome & Check-In

2. Empowerment Activity or Theme Discussion

3. Journaling or Group Reflection

4. Closing Circle or Share-Out

Girls thrive when they know what to expect—and when they’re given choice and voice within that structure.

Step 4: Pick Your Themes
Choose a few key themes to focus on during your first few sessions. You don’t need to plan the whole year—just 3–6 strong topics is a great start.

Some girl-favorite themes include:

• Confidence from the Inside Out

• My Voice Matters

• Friendship & Boundaries

• Leadership & Being the Change

• Kindness Is Strength

• Social Media & Self-Worth

• Brave, Not Perfect

Each theme can guide your discussions, activities, journaling prompts, and even music or visuals.

Step 5: Plan Your First Meeting
Your first session sets the tone. Make it warm, welcoming, and light on pressure. You want girls to walk away thinking “This is a space where I belong.”

Try including:

• A fun, low-pressure icebreaker

• Group agreements (co-created rules for how you treat each other)

• A creative activity or journaling prompt

• An uplifting closing (compliment circle, group cheer, gratitude share)

Step 6: Promote with Purpose
Get the word out with posters, morning announcements, flyers, or social media. Focus on how girls will feel in the group—not just what you’re doing.

Use phrases like:

• “Come as you are. Be part of something powerful.”

• “A space for real talk, confidence, and connection.”

• “No judgment. Just kindness, courage, and community.”

You might even host a launch event or open circle to invite new members and set the vibe.

Step 7: Get Feedback & Let the Group Grow With You
As your group evolves, keep asking: What’s working? What do the girls want more of? What would make this even better?

Let them help shape the direction of the club—give them leadership opportunities, ask for ideas, and create a space that truly belongs to them.

Want a Done-for-You Toolkit to Make It Even Easier?
The FearlesslyGiRL Program Kits give you everything you need to start and lead a powerful empowerment club from day one. You’ll get ready-made themes, printable journals, confidence-building activities, discussion prompts, and facilitator guides—so you can lead with heart, not hustle.

Starting a girls empowerment club doesn’t have to be overwhelming. Start small. Start simple. Start with heart. You don’t need to be perfect—you just need to begin.

And every girl who walks into your circle will be better for it.

– Kate